Well build a link yourself, that's half the point of a community ISP.

Use the method described here to determine line of sight to an existing node.

https://youtu.be/3eq1Xs-Ahkc?t=126

Then reach out and coordinate. All in all it shouldn't take more than a few hours of actual effort, but probably a few weeks of IRL time.

We have a channel on Slack dedicated to New Jersey, so we are working on it. slack.nycmesh.net #n-newjersey