"can" as "power" != "can" as "legitimacy". Very roughly speaking: FAANGS have power, states have legitimacy. Hence the clash with us, entangled in between but also in position to do sth about it (should we be aware of these dynamics).
I absolutely agree with everything your comment, although I wrote the one you replied to. Hence the "very roughly speaking". The mutability is precisely where some freedom for adjustment is.