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It's possible to feel empathy and at the same time pointing out the consequences of somebody's choices.

If my kid places his hands on a hot stovetop then I feel a lot of empathy and will obviously comfort him. But I won't run around claiming to the world that external forces made him do it. It was his choice. If it was his first time and/or nobody told him that it's a bad idea then there is limited responsibility, but otherwise it's squarely on him. Despite me feeling and expressing empathy.





I wonder if you can use your empathetic powers to imagine that layoffs might negatively affect some well paid engineers who are NOT fiscally irresponsible victims of lifestyle inflation



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