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We Need to Have Sympathy for Those With Depression. It is an Illness (bothsidesofthetable.com)
200 points by bcn on Jan 31, 2013 | hide | past | favorite | 176 comments


Thank you, Mark, for writing this.

I have lost three close friends in the past three months to depression. Their deaths were so similar it was shocking; they were all among the most brilliant people I had known, and all had been suffering from depression almost their entire lives.

At the funeral of the one who was closest to me, another girl told a story of how on one day when his depression was particularly bad, he boasted in his great success for the day: Getting out of bed to brush his teeth.

Bear in mind this was a kid who spoke Russian and Arabic fluently, who loved the arts, was incredible at chess, was a great musician, and took Calculus BC in 9th grade. Absolutely brilliant. He was a fighter, he was stubborn, he was young, and some say he took his own life. I prefer to say that depression took his life.

Sorry for getting so personal, but I simply can't take any of the comments that say "just get over it." Depression is as real and as disabling as being paralyzed; it may not happen to everyone, but to say things like, "You need to be stronger" are no more appropriate to the depressed than they are to the paralyzed.

But most of all, if any of you are reading this who have depression, keep fighting. Recognize your brain lies to you, and no matter what it says there are many people who love you and it will get better.


What you say about 'getting out of bed to brush his teeth' is exactly what my friend, a psychiatrist, told another friend of mine about his illness: you have to value EACH and EVERYTHING you do, even if it is just getting up and having a shower.

Help, help, help, support, support, support, being able to talk to someone who just listens and does not say 'cheer up' because you CANNOT either cheer or up. Perceive that you are loved and you are counted upon even when you feel the opposite, and that you are not seen as a nuisance (which is what one thinks in that state).

So hard to help, so much in need of it.


Thank you for a quote I will now use always going forward

  Depression took his life
Every other disease and illness is personified outside the body - only depression is treated as a choice we make instead of a illness we caught.

Thank you and I am sorry for your loss.


> your brain lies to you

Indeed, I've been saying this to myself in dozens of situations, not just depressive moods. If you actually believe it when you say it, it's like a sort of mantra that can replace any pill! ...but unfortunately people suffering from clinical depression can't get themselves into the "saying it and believing it mode".


Perhaps a digested, weighted, real-world-mapped version of Wikipedia's list of cognitive biases [1] would be useful as mantra.

Just the kind of thing that xkcd does with posters, actually.

[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_biases_in_judgment_and_...


it's what I've told others too, it's like living behind a filter, and every thought and every idea is focused on the negative and false. and the thing is, that I've had it for so long, a decade maybe? probably was there before I even recognized what it was.

but for me it comes and goes, and when it comes I've learned to see the filter, it's just harder to remember what things look like in reality.

but I'm doing well, I dont have it quite as bad as some, and it goes away and I've learned to cope and figure out and get past it, but...

it's never going to stop coming back, and I also know it brings back a kind of brightness and sharpness when it leaves, something I actually do enjoy. I'm sometimes dysfunctional because of it, but mostly... I'm just me, I do alright and I'd rather not change me just yet, so for now I'll deal with it, because it helps me help others.


>no matter what it says there are many people who love you

I hear this platitude all the time and I don't think that it's constructive. Disconnectedness and depression go hand in hand, in my experience. You may be blessed to have many people who love you, but a decent portion of the human population objectively doesn't, and can recognize it. So saying such a thing to a depressed person seems to run a high risk of rubbing their loneliness in their face.


I love the comparison to being paralysed. Being "mentally paralysed" is actually a good description.


And even if you move past the paralysis, trying to cure oneself of depression is like trying to debug the operating system of your mind using a debugger running the exact same flawed logic that you're trying to debug!

Worse, those bugs are live and their nature is to slowly but surely corrupt the rest of the system software pertaining to beliefs, memory, perception and thought processing. Eventually you reach a point where it's almost impossible to tell what's a lie and what's real, or how to non-dysfunctionally process what you do discover!

This is why therapy is so critical - you have an objective third party to help debug things, identify your blindspots and point out where the bugs in your beliefs and thought processes are. A reference manual for identifying and repairing dysfunctional thinking is also incredibly valuable and to that end I recommend David Burns' "Feeling Good" to anybody in this situation.


I just wanted to reply to give another endorsement to David Burns' Feeling Good (http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-New-Mood-Therapy/dp/03808...) - I personally use the Feeling Good Handbook (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0452281326) which is the exact same thing but a little condensed. It's a big book which can be hard to tackle with depression.

Guys, if you're suffering from depression or anxiety, this is the be all and end all of lasting treatments that works. I actually Ctrl-F'ed for it when I opened this thread.


Wow, 700 pages for the 4 dollar Kindle edition. Hard to not give it a try http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-Mood-Therapy-ebook/dp/B00...


Agreed, strongly recommended. My Mom's a librarian, and she's given it to dozens of people over the years; back in the 1990s she even bought a dozen paperbacks on sale and would mail them to friends who were having problems.


It does feel to me to be one of the cognitive routes into a depressive state. A cluster of problems can overwhelm thinking and mood to such a deep level that it descends beyond reasoning. It's "analysis paralysis" that has worked its way deep into less rational parts of the brain to become a standard mode. Once your brain loses its sense of agency it just kind of collapses in on itself, stewing in an abstract gloop of impossibilities.


> Sorry for getting so personal, but I simply can't take any of the comments that say "just get over it." Depression is as real and as disabling as being paralyzed; it may not happen to everyone, but to say things like, "You need to be stronger" are no more appropriate to the depressed than they are to the paralyzed.

The difference is that it is not always possible to talk someone out of paralysis, but I'd like to think it is possible to talk some people out of depression. So I'd prefer to think of calls to "be stronger" as an attempt at remedying someone's health problems, and not a judgement on their character.

I'll back right off claiming that "be stronger" is an effective remedy, of course.

In terms of arguing for a more sensitive language, there is a call (citation needed) to avoid the phrase "commit suicide" which implies that suicide is still a crime that one "commits."


>The difference is that it is not always possible to talk someone out of paralysis, but I'd like to think it is possible to talk some people out of depression.

Nope.

Best thing you can do is have their backs covered and stand by for emergencies while they untangle themselves from depression. Oh yeah, and cover your own ass, depression is contagious.


Sometimes it is; that's what therapy (sans medication) is about. That said, it's something best left to the professionals.

You generally can't reason someone out of something they didn't reason themselves into.


Reasoning is overrated, IMO. As Heinlein put it, "Man is the rationalising animal", and the best rationalisers, when depressed, are the best at digging themselves into a hole.


I avoid the term "commit suicide" because of the link to sins and crime. People attempt suicide, or they complete suicide.

> but I'd like to think it is possible to talk some people out of depression.

Here's the thing: It is possible to talk someone out of depression. But that talk is a carefully crafted therapeutic talk, applied by an experienced trained therapist.

Talking to someone without knowing what you're doing probably isn't going to be a long term help. And it might even be harmful.


> Recognize your brain lies to you

Thank you for re-emphasizing this. I believe it is the single most important bit of knowledge we can have about depression.

My wife has been struggling with depression on and off for years, and it always frustrates me how she in the depressed periods seemingly belittles and obliterates all the good things that happen around her, while all inconveniences and imperfections, big or small, are considered capital P Problems.

I didn't know much about depression to start with, but it was pretty apparent that this imbalanced outlook was keeping her depression going and making it worse.

If we overslept one day and one of the kids missed the first class at school (for the first time in over a year), she conceives this a significant failure, the teacher will be giving her Looks from now on, and if it happens just fifteen more times this year we are in risk of the child being kicked out of school. While in my view, I think the teacher doesn't care if it happens once, but rather is very happy with us for generally sending a happy and well-dressed child to school, who generally has her homework in order and has been taught that both reading and learning are fun.

So I try to point out the positive things whenever I can, and explain how the negative things won't cause and real damage to us. It does help, but obviously she resists the "fake obnoxious rose-tinted world view" because she can clearly see how everything is wrong. The problem with this is that this endless list of lengthy explanations of everything that is wrong and how wrong it is, and the constant trivialization of the happy moments of the day, is slowly rubbing off on me.

For a long time I was oblivious to how this affected me, until last year after she had gotten better, I suddenly crashed. At nights, I would lie awake for hours - heart pounding - thinking about how I have not done anything useful or significant ever, and how everyone I loved would in the best case be dying painfully of liver failure in old age or something like that. I could barely watch the news, because every distant little tragedy would affect me personally and making me useless for the rest of the day. When my children were running out of bed because they forgot to give me good-night hugs I would sometimes feel absolutely nothing.

Fortunately, my wife is pretty sharp and noticed the problem even though I myself didn't even notice that anything was wrong. She told me that I showed signs of depression, and we decided to keep pressure down for a few months - less travelling, less ski trips, forget about redecorating the hallway, etc.

That helped, and the knowledge that my brain lies to me helped, even though it ran much deeper than I had imagined: my brain constructs both my thoughts, my reasoning, and my impressions. Having to use this same lying bastard brain to "fix" the brain is pretty damn tricky.

We're both pretty much recovered now, but I have two pieces of advice to give:

1. Depression is contagious. If a close loved one is suffering, be sure to constantly keep an eye on yourself.

2. While the brain lies, memory is pretty reliable. When you have difficulties dealing with something, try to remember how you used to react to this before.


Hi

I went/going through exactly the same scenario you had. The main point I took (and it took me a few years to do so) is that when she starts on a depressing spiral, no matter how much I love her, I need to separate myself from it. Be slightly colder towards her problem and focus on myself, still take care of herself but not be sucked in too her 'imaginary' problems (like being late for something, or something at home isn't perfect), while that may seem harsh, it was the only thing that worked for me) I started with depressive/suicide thoughts after years of this situation when I always lived a relatively stress free and happy life and I couldn't take it anymore. I explained to her this, and how, even though it maybe be worse for her, it was better for myself and our child if at least I was able to remain 'saner'. It is still hard as well.

As toby mentioned, depression really is contagious. Maybe not 'I'm going to blow my head off' contagious, but after a few years dealing almost 24 hours with someone you love that is depressed, your outcome of life ends so messed up you start spiralling too.

All the luck toby! Bruno


Thanks for sharing this.


"Recognize your brain lies to you"

If that was possible in all cases, the concept of mental illness and chemical imbalances would not exist.


Fuck this shit.

We need to have sympathy. Not because we've diagnosed someone with a disease, but because they're a person.

Rates of depression are skyrocketing all over the developed world and whatever we're doing clearly isn't working. Personally, I think the most obvious issue is that a group of intelligent people have simply accepted the notion that what's relevant isn't someone's life circumstances, but some vague and baseless notion of "abnormal brain chemistry".

The idea of depression is a miserable cop-out, it's simply victim-blaming. We say that there is something wrong with their brains, rather than saying that there is something wrong with society. If someone is unhappy, we need to support them. It is a dismal failure of our humanity if we require the justification of medical necessity to show basic compassion.

Swartz had obvious reasons to be miserable and obvious reasons to want to kill himself. We failed him, we fucked up. He didn't die of a disease, he killed himself because he quite justifiably felt that the circumstances of his life were intolerable. We didn't do enough as a community to support him and protect him. He was a young and vulnerable man, bearing the wrath of a spiteful government. It's shameful for us to even consider for a moment that there might be something wrong with Swartz's brain, when our failures to care for him are so obvious.

If we need a scientific explanation for why we should care about each other, that's our problem. If we require a doctor's say-so to provide support for someone in difficulty, that's our disease.


> Personally, I think the most obvious issue is that a group of intelligent people have simply accepted the notion that what's relevant isn't someone's life circumstances, but some vague and baseless notion of "abnormal brain chemistry".

How about people who lead objectively wonderful lives, with good jobs and happy families, but still suffer from deep depression? The problem, if any, seems to be the other way round: that some people think only people will "bad" lives can suffer from depression, and everyone else should just "get over it." That's what seems wrong to me--and if identifying "abnormal brain chemistry" as a cause of depression helps people realise that anyone can be a victim then so be it.

Clearly if someone is suffering then external factors can make it so much worse, but that doesn't mean depression needs an external cause. Sometimes it just is.


Again, this is part of the problem. Your argument presupposes that a good job and a happy family would be enough for anyone, that anyone who is unhappy with that life is medically abnormal. Just because someone is superficially content does not mean that their unhappiness is inexplicable. Describing a lifestyle as "objectively wonderful" is patently absurd, based as it is on the belief that it is possible to objectively judge what sort of lifestyle would make someone else happy.

The neurochemical hypothesis is incredibly dangerous, because popular perception has drifted so far from scientific consensus. It is an incredibly weak hypothesis with only the scantiest of evidence, but is accepted as solidly proven by a great many lay people - some people in this comments thread describe it as "scientific fact". Most neuropsychiatrists and psychopharmacologists will freely admit that there is no real understanding of what depression is, let alone what causes it.

Many laypeople perceive depression as a simple chemical deficiency, much like a vitamin deficiency - give someone vitamin C and their scurvy goes away, give them SSRIs and their depression goes away. In fact, SSRIs are only marginally better than placebo and have no statistically-significant effect in the majority of patients. This belief is a strong disincentive to seek out psychosocial interventions, which are at least as effective.


Maybe good job and family isn't the only factors in leading a happy life?

Not that I agree fully that brain chemistry isn't a factor. That said, the fact that wealthier countries have higher depression rates (according to WHO) does make me think there is something non-biological involved.


Speaking from both experience and anthropological theory, I would hypothesize that wealthier countries have more depression because they are more mobile.

To start with the anthropological theory, let's take David Graeber's notion from Debt about the trauma of slavery. It's not merely being made to work by force that makes a slave. On a personal level, what traumatizes and dehumanizes a slave is that they have been ripped from their context. Everything that tied the free person to their family, their friends, their tribe/nation, their home, their religion, their culture, even their enemies, it has all been taken away.

I think whenever you take someone entirely out of their context and put them in an entirely new context, there is a chance for depression, because I think that on a deep level, depression is a phenomenon of a person being out-of-context, or at least, out of any context that can physically and mentally nourish them in the right way.


I appreciate where you are coming from, but I think it is wrong to dismiss the chemistry component. Having had close family members diagnosed with depression (and having lost a friend to suicide), I found myself amazed at the degree to which chemicals in the body do play a role. I have seen two cases of dramatic behavior changes in people who had no change in external life experiences (and extraordinarily happy life circumstances at that with strong and deeply caring support networks), and medication immediately corrected the behavior changes.

I do not mean to discount your primary point - I agree that we all need to take care of each other, but all the caring in the world cant change brain chemistry, and sometimes that really is where the problem is.


If it's only chemistry, why is it so much more of a problem in the developed world? Is there an unstated implication of a potential environmental cause?


It could be statistics - maybe people with depression in the undeveloped world simply die without having the depression diagnosed.

But to my knowledge the current(?) model of depression says it is both. There is the clinical depression without noticeable external factors, and there are those depressions which are quite obvious a reaction to an unbearable situation. The clinical depression can manifest itself again and again and will most likely never vanish completely. The situational depression normally goes away if the situation changes - but sure those people need help to achieve that.

Of course, that leads to the conclusion that both causes shouldn't mix, and it doesn't mean there can be no factors like genetically predetermined likelihood for situational depression.

To the first commenter: Saying that it is brain chemistry does not mean we shouldn't help those people. It is the other way around: In saying "this is a serious illness", we make it impossible to say that the depressed is responsible, why didn't he simply change his life? No one can do anything against his brain, apart from medication and maybe - and that is a big maybe - psychiatric help.


It could be statistics - maybe people with depression in the undeveloped world simply die without having the depression diagnosed.

Very much this; when you are dealing with starvation and life threatening physical diseases, mental illnesses get short shrift. There may also be a factor that fighting for survival tends to "cure" depression, but that's not a treatment I would advocate.

Is it chemical? In some cases, definitely yes. Could we do better as a society, both on being more accepting and supportive but also changing some fundamental things about our culture (more social/economic mobility, more leisure time, less consumerism)? Inarguably, yes. There's no easy solutions.


"why is it so much more of a problem in the developed world"

Hierarchy of needs masking chemical depression, I'd imagine.


I agree 99.9%, but just wanted to add one little thing.

Depression is not only a matter of society or brain chemistry. It's personal circumstances, too. About 1.25 years ago, I had a depressive breakdown that resulted in my leaving my job. Luckily, I came from a family that had always been very supportive and understanding, and through various means got treatment and changed my life to put myself back on a healthier, happier path. But... it's still a little scarring today, on the emotional front. I know that I'm fighting a defensive battle if I put myself in certain living situations.

Thing is, I was in a situation where many people would have thrived and been happy, not become depressed. It wasn't my brain chemistry, and it certainly wasn't a permanent illness. It was partially society, but most people would merely have been unhappy due to those societal factors, not depressed. It was social factors plus my burned-out personal state when it started (that I hadn't really recognized as still-burned-out) plus the social isolation I had put myself into by moving away from home and from my college town with nothing to ground me but a job plus the psychic pain of betraying several of my more important values and dreams.

Part of the problem with depression, though, is that it reduces your ability to think. I can introspect on what was going with me far better now than I could then.


This was posted in a HN comment not too long ago. It's a very good lecture that goes into both the biological and psychological aspects of depression and then manages to tie them together.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc

> We say that there is something wrong with their brains, rather than saying that there is something wrong with society.

The real answer is probably a little bit from column A and a little bit from column B.


There are bell curves of pretty much every human characteristic. When someone is at the far end of the bell curve in a way that negatively effects their interaction with the majority of humans that are in the bulk of the bell curve, we call it a disease. In the case of depression, deviations from the norm in that characteristic have a chemical basis. It's not victim blaming to point this out.

That doesn't mean we don't need to be sensitive to people with circumstances that deviate from the norm. At the same time, our expectations of how we should treat people are calibrated to the typical responses of people in the bulk of that bell curve. It is regrettable but not necessarily wrong when those expectations conflict with the needs of someone who lies outside that region of normalcy. We owe everyone common decency, but we don't necessarily owe anyone uncommon decency.


This is well-put. What I often wish is that there was a different word for these "end of the bell curve" problems; lumping them together with diseases caused by actual pathogens is, I feel, what can cause some of the skepticism about them being "real," because they are clearly not real in the same way that HIV is.

Having a clear classification would acknowledge that we know there's a difference, but that we still regard non-infectious disorders as very serious because they can be equally awful in their own ways, and they can sometimes respond to medical treatment.


Very spot on, on many points, however: there are demonstrable links between brain chemistry, genetics and depression. Hell, I inherit depression from both sides of my family, and drugs have helped me in the past. That being said, I'm very averse to medicating a problem that can be solved otherwise, and I agree that treating the causes rather than the symptoms is much more fruitful. My depression is in remission, but it's been a long hard road, and I still have a ways to go. Keeping busy in technical forums helps :)


> but some vague and baseless notion of "abnormal brain chemistry".

Neurologists disagree. So science says you're wrong.

> Swartz had obvious reasons to be miserable and obvious reasons to want to kill himself. We failed him, we fucked up.

Just because society has failed someone doesn't mean they also didn't have problems.


I think most people who knew Aaron (even briefly, like me) sensed that he had some kind of emotional problem before any of this ever happened. I knew him in the Infogami days, pre-Reddit, and I ceased our friendship because of his negativity. He wasn't mean, but my main impression of him was "Smart… but negative." Cory Doctorow wrote about the harsh experience of Aaron's mentors, who were on the receiving end of his disappointment.

Yes, the whole prosecutorial situation was adverse. Yes, it was ridiculous. Yes, he could have accepted a 6 month plea bargain… he did things which are if not outright illegal, clearly were not really aboveboard, either.

Yes, I believe that a lot of what people call 'depression' has to do with circumstances[1] -- and you'd have to have been a lot closer to Aaron than me to know if there were circumstances making him miserable back then, or if it was an organic issue, or simply who he was, personality-wise.

Many people in worse situations don't kill themselves. Many people in lesser situations do.

None of that matters. The fact that Aaron took his own life is tragic. I was truly sorry to hear it, but… I wasn't very surprised.

It's simply a fact that things are more complex than they appear from the outside. People are more complex than they appear from the outside. And when you spend a lot of time with someone, sometimes you say "Oh, they're depressed," when really they have a lot of shitty people in their lives; and sometimes it's because they make choices that make their lives miserable; and sometimes it's because they have a real organic issue that has nothing to do with their daily lives or friends/family/job or personal choices.

You can't know, though, from the outside. Only they can know.

That's the fact of the matter.

None of this downplays the need for empathy. I think it increases it. But there's no point in saying "depression is chemical" or "depression is because of shitty circumstances" or "depression is a fault of choices." Unless it's you -- and probably even if it IS you -- you can't ever know which it is.

[1] NOT saying this is to do with Aaron, but just based on my experience of a lot of different people and reading a lot of research -- "circumstances" can include all the obvious external things we think of as circumstances, and also personal, inner circumstance, such as viewing one's self as someone who has to become a world savior or the next Bill Gates, presenting a false face to everyone (result? feeling completely isolated and unknown), the choice to embrace a victim mindset, self-pity, and sometimes "too high standards" which is masking a lack of empathy for fellow people as individuals.


Right now I am depressed. I feel terrible, and very, very guilty that I feel the way I do. I don't want to do anything, but I do want to do something to distract me away from my awful feeling of numbness. I worry about the future at times, and feel I'm at a dead end. I worry about my kids, and my wife, and my ageing parents. I'm sleeping constantly, but when I sleep my dreams are too vivid.

Despite it all, I'm a functioning human being. I function at work so I use this to distract myself. It's a fairly dull job at the moment while I try to do a Computer Science degree. But I've had to defer it due to family pressures and because of this blasted funk. I intended to study in my own time, especially mathematics, but I just can't get enough motivation to do it now. I was teaching myself JPA from scratch, and was making headway, that's gone out the window. I had some ideas for an ITSM app, but that's gone too. I feel like I haven't fulfilled my goals, and a failure.

I'm not a raging depressive, but a few weeks ago I couldn't stop crying. I feel like a burden so I'm trying to hide it all. It leaks out. So I sleep, and this reduces my ability to socialise. I then feel guilty, but nobody is judging me.

It's life I guess. I don't write this to ask for pity, but to explain what it's like, while it's happening. If I had to summarise my mental state, it's like a piece of me has died inside. Knowing that it will go away doesn't really help the feeling, but it gives me fortitude to get to the next day.

I hope this might give some insight to those who haven't felt this way before.


I recognise some of the symptoms you describe; feeling guilty and feeling shame for my shortcomings. When asked what I would like to do, like you I didn't want to do anything.

I used to be depressed. Here is my experience. My depression ended about 6 months ago and lasted for about 4 years. Before then I've been depressed on and off most of my life, sometimes as severely as this time, other times just as nearly constant anxiety and a general resignation to the feeling that my character is depressive.

After some time and a big change in my life, I tried to get help. At the start I was helped by seeing a psychologist (who practiced CBT) and by taking medication. Later I couldn't have therapy any more but remained on medication.

I slowly recovered, and I think it was because I was lucky to get on the right track. That track was to be honest about all, and not try to hide any, aspects about myself, to everybody. Also those aspects that may not be perceived as positive in the norms of society. This turned out to be quite a relief. I had decided that I'd do that no matter how much social pressure I would feel from thinking I'd be perceived as different or unaccepted. This had been a fear all my life, and still is. Situations come up quite frequently when I do this fearing total rejection, but I still do it. There's fear but no anxiety. I've come to realise that honesty is much more valuable, and perhaps the most valuable thing of all. Not only to me, but to others too.

Recently I got a tremendous boost and confirmation when I heard about some of the reasoning behind the development of something called Non-violent Communication, in which it is also touched upon depression. I can't say that NC would help others or even myself at the outset, but it made a lot of sense to me.


I should, perhaps, clarify that I'm remarkably open about my depression when I'm not in the midst of it and feeling like I'm a burden on everyone. When I'm feeling as I am at the moment, that's when my tendency to feel guilty comes to the fore.

Very odd, and not helpful. It's very, very hard to get perspective when in this sort of state. Ironically, on HN I seem to be able to express myself. Perhaps putting down the words on the page (or textbox) gives some perspective. I'm sure I can't be the only one who experiences this...


Thank you for your excellent explanation. There's no way I can comprehend what you're going through, but I have the utmost respect for you. Carry on, you're a champ.


Thanks :-)


You sound like you are doing a great job man, as someone who has lived through depression, I'd like to say that I'm proud of you.

If you'd like to talk about it further just let me know.


It's not life. It's not just you. Others of us have been through this sort of thing.

The one thing I really want to kick you in the ass on is: get out of bed every fucking day, and you damn well spend time with your friends and family. It's the one thing I know of that can reliably make it feel better.

That's your life right there: friends and family. Your job will be gone someday, and you will achieve that degree someday. What's there for you right now is friends and family.

And if you ever want to talk, on Skype or instant-message or email, you damn well grab my contact info off my Hacker News profile. I've been through this before, over, under, around, through and after.

It's not easy, but it is simple. You just have to keep doing one positive thing after another, day after day. I promise.


I hope you're getting some treatment.


I am - definitely getting help, medication can be tricky to get right also.


I wish thee well sir. Thanks for sharing, I mean it.


Already this thread has replies that are trotting out the usual "depression is just sadness" or "CBT is nonsense".

The UK NHS National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (http://www.nice.org.uk/) gathers evidence of cost effectiveness (using quality adjusted life years) for various treatments.

They are pretty clear - CBT is excellent for mild depression; CBT and medication combined is more effective than either treatment alone for moderate to severe depression.

The Cochrane Collaboration (http://www.cochrane.org/) carefully investigates all the research, judges its quality, and publishes a meta analysis. They're pretty clear that CBT is effective.


I think if you go along that line of argumentation, it would be nice to link to actual articles and studies, rather than the homepage of some organization. Otherwise it is just a "call to authority", and we know those were never wrong in the course of history, right?

For starters, what do they even measure to estimate effectiveness? Suicide rates? Happyness induced from a questionaire? Brainwaves? Hormone levels?

What does effective even mean? Does it mean the patient did not induce further costs for the health industry? It could mean all sorts of things. For example chaining a patient to a bed could also be very effective in preventing suicide. So if you measure "suicides prevented", perhaps chaining people to beds is the best course of action?


> it would be nice to link to actual articles and studies, rather than the homepage of some organization.

These organisations link to their papers, and to the original studies.

> What does effective even mean? Does it mean the patient did not induce further costs for the health industry? It could mean all sorts of things. For example chaining a patient to a bed could also be very effective in preventing suicide. So if you measure "suicides prevented", perhaps chaining people to beds is the best course of action?

I knew many questions would be asked, but I didn't know what those questions would be. Rather than try to predict which questions would be asked I just link to the home pages so that you can do your own research.

After all, if you're sceptical (not a bad thing) of me you should assume that I'll cherry pick the research that I show you.


Why bother even linking to the homepage, why not just link to Google? Why even discuss at all? Everything can be proved with Google...

As for my question about which aspects they even measured: interesting would be of course YOUR aspects, which led you to your conclusion. Otherwise, the same holds: perhaps I believe you that method X is very successful, but really you only said "chaining people to beds is very successful in preventing suicides".


You are conflating two very different opinions/groups: One can necessarily be skeptical of CBT without believing that depression is just sadness.


That's not my intent; I'm just using one post to reply to a few different people.


It's an interesting issue. One fundamental question is what social context has to do with depression. Is it possible that depression is so rampant today because our lives are socially impoverished and that medication is in part just a way to cover up the root cause?


A lot of uniformed people in this thread. You can't generalise as much as you all do.

You have to understand that people experience life in very different ways. I have experienced depression [0] but I can't speak for anybody else other than to say I know it's hard and keep on.

The real problem with depression is that everybody wants to wash their hands of it. "There are doctors that we can pass these sick people to. The system will sort everything out. That guy's a real downer, I hope he get's help... from somebody else..." I understand that it can be a mood-ruiner and people feel ashamed of it even by association but where is the strength in ignoring things? Compassion would truly be helpful and if you can give it, give it.

Go for CBT and you'll find it largely amounts to filling out forms on your mental state with tickboxes that don't really apply to you, while somebody tries to find out ways that your thinking is twisted. But you can be rational, successful, positive and still feel awful. Do you want to medicate the hell out of the high-functioning, positive guy that wants to change the world [1]? The term 'chemical imbalance' sometimes gets thrown around, and honestly it's probably wrong but there is a truth to it -- often the people that say they have a chemical imbalance are thinking quite rationally but facing terrible emotions that they know they shouldn't have to (from trauma, or an unhealthy subconscious.)

[0] http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5096568

[1] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fgh2dFngFsg

edit; If you're going to downvote me it would be nice if you would mention why. Do you actually have experience of any of this? I'm trying to give my honest experience on this, and I'm trying to point out that a guy like Aaron Swartz doesn't really fit the neat definitions required by most treatments; and that compassion beyond telling others to 'go to a doctor' is worthwhile.


I didn't downvote you.

> Go for CBT and you'll find it largely amounts to filling out forms on your mental state with tickboxes that don't really apply to you, while somebody tries to find out ways that your thinking is twisted.

This is a poor version of CBT. Any practitioner providing CBT like this is doing it wrong.

CBT is not about telling you that you are wrong or that your thinking is twisted. CBT is about exploring with you what your thinking is; what's happening to you with those thoughts; how strongly you feel those thoughts and emotions. CBT is about helping you understand why you feel the things that you feel, and why you think the things you think.

There can be a bit of writing when you begin - some people find it useful to have the process down in a concrete form. There doesn't have to be writing. And checking boxes is not a good approach.

Medication works for some people. But the serotonin hypothesis is controversial.

> Do you want to medicate the hell out of the high-functioning, positive guy that wants to change the world

(I didn't view the YouTube)

Medication can have side effects, and sometimes they're not very nice. But most SSRIs don't have the kind of effects that people would describe as "medicate the hell out of".


Unfortunately, as it is practiced, this IS what CBT ends up being a good deal of the time. CBT has an implicit, and sometimes explicit, mechanistic view of human nature. This can come off as extremely judgmental to vulnerable and intelligent clients. Other approaches, like Motivational Interviewing, adopt a neutral stance that offers the potential for clients to actually explore their feelings instead of just getting rid of them.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motivational_interviewing

Edit: re-reading my comment, I think I am coming off too hard on CBT. There are real reasons why clients can come out of CBT thinking the therapist is trying to find what is twisted with them or having them fill out pointless booklets - this does not completely undercut what CBT is about. There is good working going on to combine CBT with Motivational Interviewing to improve treatment of depression and suicidality.

http://www.selfdeterminationtheory.org/SDT/documents/2011_Br...


i am doing CBT (not often though, busy travelling work schedule). I suffer from bipolar I, and while the medication was the one thing that just completely changed my life, CBT is there to help me to:

- figure out my mood. this is about keeping checklists on how long i sleep, how i feel, if i took my medication, if i ate correctly. this sounds terribly stupid, but it is very hard for me to even understand what i am feeling. seeing a little graph that tells me "you have been sleeping 16 hours a day for the last 2 weeks, and now you are barely able to sleep for 3 hours, something is going on" is very helpful.

- figure out what i need to do when certain patterns have been recognized. this is for example upping up on sports, being careful about diet, going out to see people when i'm in the down phase. and conversely cutting down on sports, going out, meditation (which makes me way too energetic and stimulated), stimulants when being too far up.

- figuring out my own personal triggers and signs for depression. this is starting to come along, and these are kind of "personal" things. if i want a new tatoo, or learn a new skill or programming language, i should be careful because this is what usually accompanies mania.

it also involves meeting with other people with the same illness, and just for a few hours every year feeling that you are not the only one in that mess.

an interesting thing about the mood graphs is suddenly realizing that a lot of these mood swings actually come out of the blue, or are more related to seasonal effects. it is my brain tricking me into finding causes and patterns and reasons. i don't want to commit suicide because nobody loves me, it's more i think nobody loves me because i am depressed because i haven't gone out for 2 weeks and missed out on my medication 3 days in a row. or because it is december.

i find CBT (at least with the practictioner i have) to be a very no-bullshit pragmatic approach to handling the psychological side of the illness.

but seriously (and in a way, thank god i have bipolar), medication works extremely well, and the one i take (lamictal) has almost no side effect.


CBT seems to be based on the idea that "wrong thought" breeds negative emotions. For example "I always screw up" should be replaced with "I screwed up this time". But if something like "I screw up on X most of the time" or "I am in the bottom percentile for X" are statements that may occur to an analytical person that are objectively true and may directly cause negative emotions. My understanding of CBT is that it suggests replacing these thoughts with positive forms like "sometimes I succeed at X" and "I'm better than most people at Y" (even if Y is something neither you nor anyone else cares about).

So CBT is fine if your thoughts do not reflect reality but if they seem to encourage self-delusion. And maybe that's fine, after all what else is there than perception. But many intelligent analytical people simply cannot willfully deceive themselves.


No. This is a misunderstanding of what CBT is about.

> But if something like "I screw up on X most of the time" or "I am in the bottom percentile for X" are statements that may occur to an analytical person that are objectively true and may directly cause negative emotions.

Okay.

> My understanding of CBT is that it suggests replacing these thoughts with positive forms like "sometimes I succeed at X" and "I'm better than most people at Y" (even if Y is something neither you nor anyone else cares about).

No.

Someone says "I screw up on X most of the time".

This is objectively true, and causes negative emotion.

Start with "What emotion do you feel?" Perhaps it's something like "shame" or "regret".

The therapist explores with you what your body is doing. When a person feels anxious their heart rate increases. Here's an important bit: try asking someone to slow down their heart rate - they can't. And it's the same if you ask someone to change a thought - they can't. The therapist will explain to you different physiological changes (sweating, breathing, heart rate, tense muscles, etc.) As you become aware of these things you can try breathing exercises to help ease tension.

Then ask what the hot thought is; what is the thought connected to "I screw up on X most of the time" that creates the feelings of shame? Perhaps the hot thought is "Other people get this, it should be really easy, I keep getting it wrong" or "I keep getting this wrong, and my team members have to keep correcting it for me, and it causes them more work and stress and tension".

You assign strengths to the emotions and to the hot thoughts.

You sit with them for a while - you're not trying to change anything yet.

And then, "I screw up on X most of the time"; well, can X be passed on to someone else who doesn't screw it up? Can someone give you extra help with X, or can they spend some time to teach you X? Notice that none of these are denying the reality of X. But now rather than worrying about stuff you can't change, you're giving yourself time to think about things you can change.

> So CBT is fine if your thoughts do not reflect reality but if they seem to encourage self-delusion.

I really fucking hate it when people condemn an evidence based effective cheap therapy based on misunderstanding and ignorance. Your attitude is causing harm to people who would benefit from CBT but who don't try it.


My understanding of CBT comes primarily from Burn's "Feeling Good", the exemplar for CBT therapy.

The quotes below are taken from the book and are consistent with my previous description of CBT.

"change the way you feel by changing the way you think".

"... we think that the causes [of our bad moods] result from something beyond our control... you can learn to change the way you think about things, and you can also change your values and beliefs. And when you do, you will often experience profound and lasting changes in your mood, outlook, and productivity. That in a nutshell is what cognitive therapy is all about."

Emphasis mine.


not all cases of depression can be attributed to unbalanced brain chemistry. sometimes the chemistry is ok, it's just your life is fucked. in this case depression is a normal reaction. you just can't remain all cheerful when you're drowning in shit. i don't think taking up meds or doing other things to cover it up is a good answer to such situations. with all its negative aspects depression is also a big reminder that something is off and must be fixed, it pushes you to make drastic changes because your regular routine doesn't quite help. sometimes it pushes you to a suicide which is sad but notice how many successful people with stellar careers and shiny popular products or art had been struggling with depression when they were failing at their job, when their dreams were crumbling, and no end to this horror was in sight. maybe it's a stretch but i'd say suffering from depression at some point in life is a normal thing for a maker. sometimes difficulties that you prepared yourself to are just greatly overshadowed by the actual state of affairs. that's to say marking all cases of depression as illness that needs to be treated is a wrong way to look at the problem. in my opinion at least. what helps is support and understanding, phrases like "pull your socks up" or "go get some pills" don't.


Why is this voted down? It's a valid opinion.

Please tell me we don't have depression Nazis who can only accept one narrow definition of depression. What I see described here is possible how most people experience depression. Or does only extreme depression count?


Depression is a jargon term with a specific meaning, as well as an everyday word with a fuzzy less specific meaning. That causes some confusion in discussions like this.

Depression covers a range of different illnesses, with different severities.

Depression is not a normal reaction to a life event.

When someone dies you feel grief. That grief may be severe. But grief is a normal reaction to death. If, however, the grief is overwhelming and lasts for years, and interferes with your life then it has developed into depression. Depression is an abnormal reaction to life events.

There is a form of depression termed "reactive depression". Something happens, and a person doesn't have a normal negative reaction but has an abnormal extreme negative reaction and falls into depression. The main treatment for that would be to correct the thing that caused the reaction, with some CBT, and medication if needed.


not all cases of depression can be attributed to unbalanced brain chemistry. sometimes the chemistry is ok, it's just your life is fucked. in this case depression is a normal reaction.

PTSD is also a normal reaction (to extreme circumstances) but it's maladaptive.

Still, I disagree with you that actual depression is a "normal reaction". Sadness and anger are normal emotions that normal people feel. Depression is something else.

People tend to conflated depressed mood, which is transient intense sadness, with the disease of depression, which is something else-- much longer lasting and more devastating.


This essay is making a logical fallacy. The implicit assumption is that if a person is in a state which falls under the category "illness" they deserve sympathy, while they might otherwise not.

Unfortunately, the essay does not define it's terms, nor does address why depression specifically deserves sympathy. Near as I can tell, it's just an application of the noncentral fallacy.

Overall, a pretty terrible essay.

More on the noncentral fallacy: http://lesswrong.com/lw/e95/the_worst_argument_in_the_world

Noncentral fallacy specifically applied to medical conditions: http://lesswrong.com/domain/lesswrong.com/lw/2as/diseased_th...


All I have to say is actually in the lead paragraph of the Wikipedia article:

"Sympathy is an extension of empathic concern, or the perception, understanding, and reaction to the distress or need of another human being. This empathic concern is driven by a switch in viewpoint, from a personal perspective to the perspective of another group or individual who is in need. Empathy and sympathy are often used interchangeably, but the two terms have distinct origins and meanings. Empathy refers to the understanding and sharing of a specific emotional state with another person. Sympathy does not require the sharing of the same emotional state. Instead, sympathy is a concern for the well-being of another. Although sympathy may begin with empathizing with the same emotion another person is feeling, sympathy can be extended to other emotional states."

http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Sympathy&oldid...


The problem with depression is that it is hard to diagnose. If anything we are still in the dark ages of mental illness. If you have an infection we have a way to tell you what infection. Right now there is no way to test for depression.

More scientific research is definitely needed.


Depression can be diagnosed pretty easily by running through a form of questions and checking off checkboxes. You are depressed if some statistical measures score above a certain value.

To which degree are you...Sad? Have trouble getting things done? Don't find joy in the things that used to make you happy? Thinking about death? Feel any emotions at all? Afraid that something terrible is about to happen? Thinking about killing yourself? Planning to kill yourself? Etc.

It's not an exact science the way physics is, but we are only in the dark ages of mental illness in the sense that a lot of uninformed people don't have any idea how these illnesses are treated by professionals.


Why isn't it an exact science? Science teaches us that things should be repeatable and reproducible.

Running through a form of questions and ticking off boxes doesn't seem very "advanced" to me. In fact it seems like the very definition of backwards.

Why aren't we aiming for a physics level of understanding in psychology?


I see where you're coming from, and I don't disagree that there is plenty of research to be done here: differentiating different types of depression and anxiety, detailed fMRI studies, getting more knowledge about chemical imbalances and how the drugs operate etc.

But mood disorders aren't in the same ballpark as physical ailments. I mean, even a common infection can be impossible to diagnose unambiguously from a simple blood test, and mood disorders usually interact with who you are as a person. You can't just make a machine that solves this.

I doubt you're the kind of person to be convinced by an anecdote, but I suffered recurring depression and anxiety for a period of five years and was almost completely cured by a combination of SSRIs and CBT. What seemed to make me get these recurring depressive episodes was a combination of unhealthy thought patterns and behaviors. Holding myself to impossibly high standards, having a habit of disregarding my accomplishments, working very hard with no long breaks, being overly critical in social settings and a lot of other small things that were very much part of my personality (and incidentally, very common in the tech community). No one would have classified these behaviors as excessively weird or pathological, but they turned out manifest in long-lasting and serious depressive symptoms. The question is, how are you going to measure behaviors and thought patterns like this with a machine or a physical measurement?

Maybe you could just say that "okay, so the depression or anxiety isn't a symptom of something that's wrong, it's a problem in itself, which we could somehow fix physically or chemically". But then you're moving into some pretty dodgy philosophical territory.

Mood disorders simply can't be a hard science with the degree of understanding we can hope to get in the near future. And although there's plenty of research to be done, the methods we use are pretty good.


We're not talking about clock work machinery, we're talking about the human brain. Asking why issues of the brain aren't an exact science is like asking why we haven't solved the halting problem yet. Cognition and sentience are still far from solved problems. Moreover, the way that different minds react to different physical problems of the brain is inevitably going to be hugely complex. Some people will brood alone in their room and write poetry like Emily Dickinson, some people will throw themselves off a bridge.


> Asking why issues of the brain aren't an exact science is like asking why we haven't solved the halting problem yet.

I disagree. We know everything we need to know about the halting problem: the halting decision procedure cannot and will not ever exist. There's certainly a lot more we can and will discover about the workings of the brain.


> Why aren't we aiming for a physics level of understanding in psychology?

We call that neuroscience. On a related note, Henry Markram just got $1.3 billion EUR for whole brain emulation. So there's that.


A test can't be done in a lab on bloods but most of the time you can usually see the signs simply by observation and just talking to the person.

I say the real problem is that it's hard to treat.

When you see a close family member or friend suffering, you can't force them to go the doctors, where depression would certainly be diagnosed, and many often just don't go.

The standard set of medication for depression usually takes a couple of weeks to kick in. It's common to see symptoms worsen before they get better during this timeframe. It's gut wrenching to watch if you have personal experience with it.

Effective therapies require effort from the sufferer. If you're feeling really low, it's hard to the put the effort into anything - drops in personal hygiene standards are not rare.

It sucks we don't have a test for it like we have for physical disease but I think a bigger problem is treatment, which is done in a "see what works" manner if the first line of defence doesn't work, which is really damaging when you consider the above.


And what I'm getting at is the fact that there SHOULD be a blood test. Or a biopsy. Or something more concrete.

Is it not possible? I'd like scientific research to say that it is impossible.


Would you also like to have voltage readings as scientific explanation of an off-by-one error in software?


What I'm saying is a clear cut test would be great but it's not actually hard twit out it and a bigger problem is the treatment.

I think the answer to both lies in the same area though, since the source of depression is not clear in the brain (I believe there was a study that shown SSRIs have an immediate effect on serotonin re-uptake yet takes a number of weeks to ease depression - implying serotonin doesn't play such a direct role as once believed).


We have to study it from multiple angles. I don't have a problem with more research into SSRIs. Hell I don't even have a problem with SSRIs.

The main issue I have is that people think our understanding of mental illness / psychiatry is as good as say pathology.


Oh I do not deny that at all. If it was, we both wouldn't be airing our distaste for diagnosis and treatment. The whole field is still very, very young so we can't expect the same advances as we have in other areas.

My main point is that, from my own person experiences through the whole system, treatment seems the most broken aspect. Diagnosis of depression is possible without a blood-test, as are other physical illnesses, the signs are obvious. The treatment is not as trivial, you won't do well to "let it run it's course", the drugs are gruelling and may not even work and therapy requires drive a depressed person hasn't got.


Another aspect of depression is dependent on BDNF levels (Brain-Derived Neurotrophic Factor).

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21749907


We are no more in the "dark ages of mental illness". You must be kidding. Before we used to burn people who were mentally deficient and heard voices or had hallucinations as they were thought to be possessed by the Devil. That was the "dark ages of mental illness" you are talking about. There is now information, testing, diagnostic methods everywhere available, and efficient medication. Keep yourself up to date.


How do you definitively test for depression?

Are the diagnostic methods pretty good? Both accurate and precise with very low false positive rates?

Is the medication proven to work for depression?

Sorry but I think a lot of that can be argued that we are still shooting in the dark. I want a test for depression like I test for strep throat. AND I want the "cure" to be repeatable.

Yes we are still in the dark ages.


Are the diagnostic methods pretty good? Both accurate and precise with very low false positive rates?

Yes: "Overall sensitivity was 84% (95% CI, 79% to 89%); overall specificity was 72% (CI, 67% to 77%)" (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7755226)

Is the medication proven to work for depression?

There's no such thing as proof in science. A recent meta-analysis: "Most patients treated with serotonergic antidepressants showed a clinical trajectory over time that is superior to that of placebo-treated patients. However, some patients receiving these medications did more poorly than patients receiving placebo. These data highlight the importance of ongoing monitoring of medication risks and benefits during serotonergic antidepressant treatment" (http://archpsyc.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=11074...)


Interesting...do you have the full article?



He's not completely off. Psychology is still in its infancy. That's putting it lightly.


Depression has different stages. Sometimes it's easy to get out of depression. I'm sure we all experience it at our "low" points during different stages of our lives. From failing a startup or death of a family member.

The depression that we can't get out of alone -- when we lose all hope for everyone -- that's the hardest to fight. Losing your will to live can quickly lead to suicide. And it's hard to tell from someone else's perspective that you're suicidal because you've pushed everyone away.

I think the only cure to the second form of depression is to practice a healthy state of mind everyday. Enjoy life and friends that are close to someone. Always share your problems with a close person (someone you truly trust). You must have the will to live. Giving up isn't the answer to all your problems because someone else will have to inherit your problems. Which isn't fair for that someone!


Grief is normal. Grief is an appropriate reaction to a lifetime event. Grief normally subsides after a time; it's still there, but not overwhelming.

Depression is not normal. When you still feel overwhelming grief years after the event, and it's affecting your everyday life and preventing you from functioning, then it's depression.

> I think the only cure to the second form of depression is to practice a healthy state of mind everyday.

I sort of agree - mindfulness and CBT techniques can be used everyday to help prevent depressive thinking.


We need more compassion in general - not just for the outlier cases - but society in general can be a pretty mean entity.

I've been thinking lately how sad it is that so many of the younger hackers in my local scene (metalab.at) are not as familiar with John Lennons' World Peace movement as they should be. That light was snuffed out, but John (and Yoko, and many, many others) were really trying hard to get a world peace movement established, that would bring more love to the world.

If you turn on the TV today, you don't see much love. Most "comedies" are little more than 30-minutes-ridicule+laughtrack. In fact, remove the laugh-track from most TV shows and you have a banal hate festival.

I think depression being treated poorly, in general, by society is symptomatic of a larger maladay - which is that we humans simply don't trust our neighbors. We don't communicate freely and honestly with each other. You can't smile at a stranger in Vienna, for instance, just for the sake of the happiness - there always has to be the inference of an alternative, sinister, motive. Why is that?

Its because, fundamentally our cultural veigns - the mass communications networks of PR, Advertising, News, TV - don't profit from happiness and good times. They profit from the "black blood cell" of intrigue, controversy, synthesis/anti-synthesis. All we really see on TV is conflict this and that, and if there is some sort of consolation, its usually couched as "irony" or some such emotion.

But what of true Peace, where people are getting along great? There is a lot of that in the world, and it goes under-reported, and just not noticed by the majority. Its possible that depression is a social disease, and is contagious.

But, so is happiness.

We need more overt acknolwedgement of the good times, too, in my opinion - the truly good times, real progress. The aversion of the average citizen towards sharing good news and good times needs to be overcome.

We miss you, John Lennon.


Funny. For me, I get depressed and turned off when I see too much peace, happiness, and love crap in media. Maybe it's because I'm part of the generation who's grown skeptical of everything in media, but I definitely prefer the darker, sarcastic side of content. A John Lennon style love/peace-fest sounds like an absolute nightmare to me. No thanks.


Funny. For me, I get depressed and turned off when I see too much peace, happiness, and love crap in media.

I tend to be the same way. If I was as depressed as I as a few years I would be actively hostile toward the vast majority of the otherwise well-intentioned posts on this submission.


Yeah, but I'm not depressed. It's just that I can only take saccharin in small doses.


Well I think thats a shame. I won't say "it seems you are a product of the media process whereby an affinity towards denigration is contagious" .. but its certainly something I wonder about as a cultural effect. "Can't stand positive things" is a bit of a loose nail ..


Professor Sapolsky at Stanford gave an interesting lecture about depression a few years ago... highly recommended:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc


There's also this, "How To Be Alone": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs . It did help me a couple of times.


That's a really good video -- I saw it linked in the aftermath of Aaron. It's worth the 52 minutes to watch it.


While I agree that we need to be more sympathetic to those with depression, but I think it needs to extend way past just depression and on to all mental illness. Mental illnesses cause distorted thought patterns and it isn't the fault of the individual who has that mental illness, just as it isn't the fault of the Type 1 Diabetic that they have their illness.

Speaking from first hand experience, it can be overwhelming and lonely to suffer from mental illness. I have to hide my thoughts from others (including my own wife) because of fear that they won't understand and that they may think of me as a monster.

We have come a long way from where we used to be regarding mental illness (such as blaming poor parenting), but we still have a long ways to go.


A few years back when I quit smoking I spent two weeks with withdrawal symptoms the biggest one been depression. It hit me so harsh that I felt like I lost the earth under my feet. I’ve never felt anything similar and I can honestly say it was by far the worst period of my life. You wake up and you just don’t have the courage to do anything. Every single insecurity I had surfaced during those two weeks multiplied by ten.

The odd thing is that those two weeks were the most socializing ones I’ve ever spent. I felt like I wanted to be with other people 24/7 although it didn’t make any difference to my condition. And this imho is the biggest problem with depression, there are no visible signs that someone suffers from it. So if you don’t know if someone has it how can you help them.

Fortunately for me this hell lasted only a couple of weeks, until my body cope up with the lack of nicotine. I don’t know how I would manage to live with something like that for years or even decades. I have the outmost respect and sympathy for the ones living with depression.

Without trying to be smart ass I have the feeling that depression is a fundamental problem of lifestyle standards. The majority of our insecurities are imposed on us by some wicked version of how life should be. So instead of enjoying the little moments of happiness we tend to believe that happiness is a constant situation which happens to be out of our grasp and thus we hammer ourselves with the inability to get there. And then you end up with a dozen insecurities and everything seems so vain.


Part of the problem is how doctors, and especially psychiatrists, have approached treating depression. There are many people who simply get down once in a while, in response to a particular event or series of events, the way most of us do at some point in our lives. If these people come across a psychiatrist, there's a decent chance they will end up on anti depressants when they likely just need some counseling and time. They should not be classified as depressed, maybe a transient mood disorder, but who knows if insurance would pay for that. That takes away from people who truly suffer from clinical depression, a real medical condition which should be separately classified as such. If you throw them into the basket of people who are just down once in a while, you do them a great disservice, because society then looks at them as someone who just can't deal with issues and need a crutch in the form of medications. The people with real clinical depression are the ones who are at risk of committing suicide. Psychiatrists can figure out which is which usually, not always, but instead they treat everyone the same, and as a result less time is spent on those who need it the most (unless they end up getting hospitalized)


I agree that depression is an illness. I also agree that we need more sympathy and help for those who suffer it, and there needs to be less stigma surrounding it.

Having said that, we should not forget the victim's loved ones left behind, after his/her suicide to grieve and bury the victim. These people are victims too. Sometimes other lives are destroyed by an act of suicide. A young wife left to raise the kids alone. A mother forced to bury an only child; perhaps committed to a life of depression herself.

For the record, I have had my own battles with depression. I have had days I was unable to get out of bed. I have also had suicidal thoughts. But the thought of the pain I would inflict on my family, particularly my mom, would never allow me to truly consider it an option. I don't pretend to have felt the pain that would drive one to suicide, because there are degrees and experiences differ. But it helps to know where I'm coming from.

I think there needs to be more of a stigma surrounding suicide and more awareness for the pain of those that are left to grieve. If you're considering ending it all, please try to get help, and please think of the pain you will be inflicting on those you leave behind.


I am said to suffer depression myself, which BTW I would deny as I would say its "realism", but I really have an issue with it being described as an "illness".

It seems to be that this definition is more about giving depression PR parity with actual illnesses, rather than a correct label. Its like the public will accept an "illness" as real, but a psychological issues as not real. There for making the public see depression as "illness" helps get support. See what I mean?

From what I can make out, depression is a state of mind. Its a psychological thing. Ie, its a sort of loop people get themselves in to. That, to me, is not an illness. Not more so than arrogance, confidence or anger. Its an emotion. Is love an illness too? I realise that can be debated, but I don't think its helpful to redefine things for PR reasons. To me that cheapens it.

I'm not saying depression is there for less valid, clearly its as debilitating as what I would think of as real "illness", if not more so, but I do roll my eyes and switch off every time I hear the word "illness" appropriated for things that aren't really "illnesses". As I say, the lack of the word illness doesn't, to me, make it less serious. To me, using that word is not necessary, it just blurs the lines and can put people off caring. It make it sound exaggerated or a bit "me too".

Should add that I do understand that there are different types of depression. Perhaps using the single word depression to cover all cases is more the problem that the word "illness".

I'm by no means unsympathetic, I know how it can effect people. I've seen the results of suicide. Hell, my mum's other half had to cut the bloke down while the wife screamed in the street. But I worry that re-defining things puts the general population off.

No idea if these definitions are different each side of the Atlantic. Heh, no idea if its just me who thinks this either!!!


This is wrong, wrong, wrong. Sometimes people get down or get "the blues" but this is something very much different from major clinical depression. Depression has many aspects but one of the most important is a chemical imbalance in the brain. It's not just a feeling or an emotion, it's a fundamental change to the way your brain works. And episodes of major depression can last for years, even decades.


Depression has many aspects but one of the most important is a chemical imbalance in the brain.

If this is the case, there should be a chemical test to determine whether a person suffers from it. Does such a test exist? I'm unaware of it, but I'd love to read more.

(I'm not asking if it's clinically usable, but merely whether the specific chemicals and levels are known. If they are not known, then "chemical imbalance" is merely a hypothesis.)


how about just doing a tiny bit of research: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_of_depression ??


You could have simply said "no".


And somehow a chemical imbalance in the brain cannot be achieved by human behavior? The brain constantly adapts and changes to outside stimuli. Why would it be impossible to create depression from outside stimuli? I'm not trying to marginalize the illnesses of other people, but let's try to have a more varied approach than "no it's in the brain and they are born with it"


It's obvious to anyone who's being honest that many depressive episodes that get labeled "clinical depression" are triggered by major life events like the death of a loved one and therefore there is at least some psychological element involved. The pharmaceutical companies are interested in convincing everyone that it is purely physical and therefore requires chemical delivery packages to ever have a hope of overcoming, but an honest analysis demonstrably dismantles this idea.

Sometimes you have to be willing to look past the studies and trials bought and paid for by drug companies, recognize that every published study, in any field, is complex and flawed, and be willing to admit what's plainly visible even if there an intelligentsia (also purchased) standing by to aggressively shout you down and claim that their fancy documents allow them to define reality and that any naysayers should be ostracized and cast out.

It's kind of funny that this same intelligentsia has now latched onto "bullying" as a pet issue, since it's basically been their MO for many years. Almost all progress gained by this group is gained by shaming less articulate and/or ballsy persons into submission.


There's something to keep in mind. You are your brain and your brain is you. You're not some sort of cloud of abstract disconnected thoughts. The "loop" you speak of causes real physical changes to a real physical thing (so do traumatic brain injuries which can cause depression, btw). It doesn't really matter how the changes start or take place, once they are far enough under way it becomes impossible to quickly undo them.

It can be and is cured with drugs, and rehabilitation therapy and it takes time. The cure is also a physical change. Sounds pretty disease-like to me.


> I am said to suffer depression myself, which BTW I would deny as I would say its "realism", but I really have an issue with it being described as an "illness".

There's a difference between being cynical, and being depressed. Clinical depression crosses through to the other side, where everything seems unreasonably bad.


I see what you mean but I think you need to clarify your concepts. After you do this you may see things differently. (Note by the way that when people say 'depression' here I imagine that they are talking about 'clinical depression'.)

Not all "mental states" are created equal. For instance you mention arrogance and confidence. These are are attitudes, or personality traits really, not emotions. Love is similarly not strictly an emotion when you think about it, it's a disposition - we fall in and out of and _are_ in love, but we _get_ angry or get sad, we don't _get_ love. Depression, someone mentioned elsewhere is like a filter, or as someone else mentioned is like having a part of you dead inside, the part that makes life bearable, the part that provides resilience to the sufferer against the unforgiving nature of this world we live, joy for life is snuffed out. One gets depressed but it lasts and lasts, anger by contrast is usually fleeting, so are most other emotions.

Depression usually is accompanied by a broken sleep routine, persistent negative thoughts, morbid thoughts, a lack of self-esteem, an inability to remember that life has its ups as well as its downs. Clinical depression wrecks lives. Perhaps "illness" is not the right word but it certainly seems like a profound psychological disturbance, a psychological illness. When we truly have a 100% neuro-scientific of whatever it is we'll be able to use the right terms but for now "illness" may be the best term we have, so we may as well use it.


I see what you mean but I think you need to clarify your concepts. After you do this you may see things differently.

Not all "mental states" are created equal. For instance you mention arrogance and confidence. These are are attitudes, or personality traits really, not emotions. Love is similarly not strictly an emotion when you think about it, it's a disposition - we are in love, but we get angry or get sad, we don't get 'love'. Depression, someone mentioned elsewhere is like a filter, or as someone else mentioned is like having a part of you dead inside, the part that makes life bearable, the part that provides resilience to the unforgiving nature of this world we live. One gets depressed but it lasts and lasts, anger bu contrast is fleeting, so are most other emotions.

Depression usually is accompanied by a broken sleep routine, persistent negative thoughts, morbid thoughts, a lack of self-esteem, an inability to remember that life has its ups as well as its downs. Perhaps "illness" is not the right word but it certainly seems like a profound psychological disturbance, a psychological illness. When we truly have a 100% neuro-scientific of whatever it is we'll be able to use the right terms but for now "illness" may be the best term we have, so we may as well use it.


"We Need to Have Sympathy." Period. There, I fixed it for you.


Let me preface this with: I have first hand experience of depression, I don't think it's just sadness and I'm absolutely sympathetic toward those who with depression.

But...

My thinking about mental illness changed a lot after reading a book called Crazy Like Us [1]. It doesn't talk about depression specifically - it's a collection of case studies on how different mental illnesses have been experienced/handled/treated by different societies around the world, and how western understandings of mental illness have generally displaced existing cultural understandings, not always for the better.

The major argument of the book is that the Western view of conditions such as depression as 'mental illness' has been counter-productive to attempts to de-stigmatize such conditions. The author also makes a convincing argument that it's also made recovery less likely for a lot of sufferers.

And to me that makes a lot of sense. Many other cultures view emotional suffering as a normal part of human life. In the West we view it as an unnatural state. We think that by detaching the condition from the sufferer, we're de-stigmatizing it, but the sufferer ends up more stigmatized because... now they are considered mentally ill. And they have less hope of their situation improving, because we're telling them that there is something biologically wrong with them.

[1] http://www.amazon.com/Crazy-Like-Us-Globalization-American/d...


If there is one thing I've learned about depression is that we suck at identifying it and we suck even more at "curing" it.

I'm not a doctor. But there is a huge difference between being sad and killing yourself. There are some people who think it is just "in their head" and to "shake it off". There have been lots of diseases in our history that people thought were normal until we made some crazy discovery that what was really causing it was some previously unknown agent.


Having experienced a couple major depressive episodes, I have no desire to ever go back, and I've built myself a sort of mental fortress to hopefully withstand whatever shocks I'll experience as I keep on living. I'm fortunate in that in both of my cases, I was able to emerge and put the depression behind me. I can't imagine chronically feeling the way I did.

Imagine being so emotionally hurt that it feels like physical pain, long after you were able to mentally process what initially upset you. Like a pain so chronic and awful that you're willing to do just about anything to make it stop. Imagine how frustrating it is to want to be over something and to think you are mentally past it, but the emotional side of your brain (i.e. most of it) just won't budge. And then on top of it, you feel guilty for being such a drag on people around you. And you also feel paranoid that even when you're not dumping on them, you're alienating them in some way. So you mostly just suffer in silence. It's terribly debilitating.

A friend of mine who undoubtedly would be reading HN today if he were still around evidently felt this way pretty much his entire life. I don't think I would have been able to take it either.


I live with someone who suffers from depression. The idea that it is a disease is somewhat welcoming in that it allows people to rationalize that their actions are not entirely their fault, but at the same time it almost hurts those suffering because of the complacent attitudes it breeds.

Often times, before a person is known to suffer from depression people will comment on their behaviors/mannerisms as if they're abnormal. Once they realize the issue they are sympathetic but change to "they can't help it, they're depressed." In many ways this can be true, its uncontrollable at times, but for other times they need support, not sympathy.

Support means helping them feel better about what ails them. It means distracting them from their worries with things you know will lift their spirits and help them see the lighter sides of things. When you can't lift their spirits you need to be there until they can move on naturally. A person suffering from depression can focus on a negative aspect of life so intently that it is damaging but as a supportive role in their life you need to look past that.

Don't sympathize, be active in supporting them or get out of the way so someone willing to can.


As part of self observation I noticed that depression starts with negative thinking. The thought can be qualified as "negative" or "positive" by the physical bodily sensation it produces. Negative thought essentially produces self-inflicted pain within the body. Consistent negative thinking produces more inner pain and at more intense levels. This inner pain in turns fuels negative thoughts pattern that continues to inflict more "emotional" pain. Then it becomes vicious cycle of "beating yourself up".

At deeply depressed stages thought control no longer works and any attempts to "think yourself" out of depression are becoming futile. At these stages depression is fueled by constant intense physical/emotional pain that is constantly present seemingly without any thinking processed. The more intense the pain - the more unbearable it is - and this drives person to suicide as the last resort to stop suffering.

The actual solution in this case it to guide person to look at the pain directly instead of escaping, avoiding or suppressing it with painkillers. Painkillers may be necessary to maintain sanity though through the practice. This is ancient practice talked about by pretty much every spiritual teacher - yet widely ignored. When you feel depressed - locate exact area of painful physical sensations within the body and start observing it. Watch your sensations, watch your feelings, watch them exactly where they are. Do not try to change them, do not try to kill them, just observe them. At the same time breathe and follow your breathing as well. Conscious breathing slows down incessant thinking. Direct observation of painful emotions will start dissolving them.

This is very efficient practice that I personally benefited from during very intense emotional downturns and depressive states.


Depression happens for many reasons. We do need to have sympathy because the depth of depression varies from person to person.

Some of it can be genetic and I think it can also be copied from other people or passed on. That is why if you hang around with happy people you have a tendency to be happier.

One of the things I noticed in my successful peers is that they go through a period of depression before great periods of productivity or creativity. The depths of depressions or "pullbacks" vary from person to person but most of them show that trait before periods of greatness.

IMO, depression is increasing because pressure is increasing on the average individual in general. From society, to our peers, from the media, from our own competitive nature we are putting more pressure on ourselves to perform or not perform via rebelling.

I am not a doctor, but I know when one of my friends or peers say they are depressed, it is taken very seriously. We all go out of our way to support that person.

Life does go on. Life does change. Sometimes it is darkest before the dawn. Never give up.


How common is it to find people who don't sympathize with depressed people? I don't care about anonymous trolls on the internet. I mean in real life?

In my experience with depression, everyone sympathizes and worries and wants help the depressed person. But being a vicious brain disease, depression will make you think the people who love you actually hate you and lough at you behind your back, when at work, or even while sleeping.

I have been accused of laughing at the person I love while sleeping, by her. No, it did not make me upset. I know it was the demons in hear head making her say that. I had been with her as she descended deeper and deeper and her self-hatred got worse and worse.

So when I hear that we need to sympathize with depression, I think you either have no experience with depressed people, or you're trying to convince anonymous internet trolls. The later is as futile and pointless task as can be. It is better to teach and train people on ignoring the trolls.


I have suffered from severe depression since I was young. I (think) I'm pretty smart, but have definitely held myself back from achieving things that I could have because of it.

I have found this to be nearly crippling when accompanied with the rejection and difficulty of being an entrepreneur. Professionally, I have done a lot of freelance work as a result.

I've held pretty good jobs for ~ 1 year, but eventually have some problem due to workload stress combined with my depression. Regrettably this has made me leave jobs in non-ideal ways.

I'm looking for my next great position now, and it's tough to answer the "why did you leave this position and then go freelance last year" with "I let my depression get ahead of me and tried to kill myself."

I know that it's an incredible liability to a potential employer to hire someone that might do great work for a year and then abruptly leave.

I just needed to get that off my chest.


In addition to sympathy, I wish we were better at telling people close to us to go see a doctor about their depression, or mental health in general. In particular, I wish someone had told me to do so ~7 years ago; would have saved a lot of misery.


I really disagree with the classification of depression as a mental illness... it's such a crude way to talk about what is really a spiritual and intellectual problem.


I don't know that depression is really that stigmatized these days. It's poorly understood, even by the people studying it. But though we might argue about the merits of chemicals vs therapy, I think most people recognize it as a genuine illness that needs to be treated.

Having previously been married to someone with depression issues (suicidal thoughts included) I can say it's a bitch. It's hard to know someone like that and not think of them as ill.


For anyone affected by depression or other mental health issues, like stress and anxiety, I recommend the work of John Kabat Zinn and his teachings on mindfulness. This was offered when I was still an in patient at a psychiatric unit and has had numerous beneficial effects on people I know who have struggled with serious depression and mental illness (including myself). There are mindfulness courses all over the world these days :)


The trouble with so many mental illnesses is that there's no good diagnostic test to help identify sufferers, and many go undetected or untreated until it's too late. There must be something that can be done about this. It might help those not personally affected by depression to understand its true nature better too.



What if depression is the evolutionary solution to overpopulation?


Depression is partly biological-- the tendency that way surely is-- but it's also a natural outgrowth of a society that doesn't forgive mistakes and that tests people not based on peak capability or creativity, but on breaking point.

Somehow, we've conflated character and loyalty (which are important) with the willingness to suffer needlessly in the name of subordination and whatever the fuck "team player" means.

The brogrammer culture and unnecessary long hours of Corporate America are all about testing people based on their decline curves, not peak performance. It's competing to suffer rather than competing to excel. Who is the first to crack? Fire him. Who is the last to break? Promote him. It's ridiculous and of course it's going to lead to an "epidemic" of mental illness.

In the corporate world, we promote based on participation in shared suffering (i.e. who stays until 1:30am to meet an arbitrary deadline) rather than talent, and we kick people when they're down, which is why it's impossible for someone to get back into the career game after even a short time outside of it (maternity, illness, depression). Of course we're going to have our best people dropping like flies.

Depression and anxiety disorders have always existed, but they don't need to be this common. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that at least half of the problem is caused by social and economic forces. These problems are biological at root, but social factors tend to modulate the severity that people experience.

Mark Suster deserves major props for speaking out about this. I've criticized him in the past, but I'm starting to like the guy.


If you took a survey, asking if they felt sympathy for those diagnosed with the mental illness of clinical depression, I am pretty sure that most would answer yes.

My point is that this article is sort of worthless and whats more, the title is really irritating (because most people already have sympathy for those with depression). How about an article titled - we need to seek shelter to survive winter (most people already do).

What we need to do is a lot more than feel sorry for these people. We need to take action to help them.


Without death of loved one, without death of friends. Without these a lot of revelations and emotions would be locked in you forever.

They spark humanity, they unite, they bring forward topics that usually no one would want to discuss.

And when all your fears will be dealt with, maybe death will stop be so scary.


It seems to be culturally dependent too and related to education as well. There seems to be less of an epidemic in the part of Asia where I live.


I am not sure which part of Asia you are referring to, but in Japan there is "depression boom", at least judging by the increased amount of anti-depressants being sold.


I lived in India and the conditions could be described to be bleak enough to make the most optimistic person sad. Suicide rates there were 10x what they are in the west. I am not even sure there is enough cultural understanding and sensitivity about depression: There used to be an uproar and attempts to treat the symptoms when high school kids used to commit suicide by the dozen (typically after poor exam results).

(To the other poster, depression is not the same as "being sad" and having a bunch of people around you all the time asking you whether there is something wrong is not necessarily conducive to mental health. (Just to offer a flip side to your oh, there is so much community which is why there is a lack of mental illness anecdote.))


Depression is having a negative outlook on life over an extended period of time that starts effecting your everyday decisions and causing you to withdraw from social situations. It's an extension of being sad. Turn it around. If you're happy most of the time, it will be difficult for a psychiatrist to classify you as being depressed.


Sorry no offense, but you don't get depression. There are people who may have a "positive outlook" on life, appear to be happy go lucky and one fine day not be able to get out of bed due a to crippling overwhelming feeling of despair. This is not just an "extension of being sad.". You can't just shake a person who is depressed or throw a bunch of balloons or bring a bunch of relatives around this person and make them feel happy. Sometimes, a person who is depressed can't even explain why they are being depressed. Sadness doesn't work like that.


There's despair and there's sadness. Can you highlight the difference?


I haven't withdrawn from life (except when I get very tired and need sleep), and I don't feel sad. I feel flat and empty. Others feel sadness, but it's not always that way.


As the other poster said, this is NOT depression. Depression is much more than just that. Seriously, you have never met anyone depressed in your life if your definition of depression is limited to that. Depression is when someone you have known for many years as being normal becomes suddenly incapable of doing anything, incapable of any logical train of thought, and spending time talking too much, obsessed by things a normal person would consider as crazy, together with severe, extremely severe mood swings. Well, what i describe is ONE form of depression, but it's not just about remotely being sad. You really should inform yourself before having an opinion on anything.


"You really should inform yourself before having an opinion on anything."

Oh? So we should be informing ourselves with more anecdotal evidence?

"together with severe, extremely severe mood swings"

This sounds like you are bipolar. Happy one day and sad the next is one of the clear signs of being bipolar.


Yeah, I was just about to say that the suicides by pesticide-drinking I have been reading about don't exactly seem like a sign of good mental health. I would be willing to bet that depression and anxiety are simply underdiagnosed due to stigma or doctor ignorance. Same goes for the number one suicidal act which is normally attributed only to religious extremism: Suicide bombers.

Think about it. You've read historical accounts hundreds of years old that describe these things. It doesn't make sense that this is just a made-up condition by spoiled Westerners, which is usually the first thing that people think when they look at official numbers for anxiety and depression by country.


In India, where there is a large network of family and friends that you can tap into and confide in, it's much easier to pass through your low periods without them having a lasting influence on your psyche. Traditionally, there were no psychiatrists in India, but lots of gurus and so called healers that were probably used by those staggering in life. Today, the family and friends network is being replaced by Facebook which is a lot less substantial. Also, western medicine style psychiatrists are now quite common in all cities. The incidence of what is now called mental illness is picking up in India.


BS. Everything that could be lifted by CBT is just ignorance and lack of determination.

Medication without changing of habits is the same as drinking - it only masks the symptoms temporarily.


That is a highly uninformed opinion.


Who knows.) In addition to taking a few Psychology courses, including one of Drugs and brain, I happen to be from a Russian working class, which means I saw so much shit you probably never seen even in movies.) Uninformed, come on.


I think it's actually highly well informed, Psychiatrists themselves admit there's nothing scientific about the whole "brain chemistry imbalance" bullshit. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzdu3WQyIZg&list=PLFD5944...


He isn't talking about medication, he is talking about CBT. CBT on it's own has been shown to be effective for low to moderate depression.


You are speaking to someone who claims that psychiatrists are responsible for the holocaust, pearl harbour, etc etc.


straw-man, ad hominem

One thing is clear to me, discussing psychiatry is already a MAJOR TABOO... e.g.: in the article the dude says how he "thinks it has something to do with chemistry... and stuff" clearly in a not-so-scientific reasoning(not that all must be) but just pointing out this sort of questionings leads to major downvoting


Scientology is absurd. You'll have to forgive me if someone such as myself, who suffers from depression, don't find that the assertions made by a cult to be something I take very seriously.

By all means, criticize psychiatry. However, I've not seen anything substantive raised in any of the discussions in any of the threads so far.


Can you not see that there is a huge difference between "questioning the effectiveness of psychiatry" and "blaming psychiatry for the holocaust"?

I'm more than happy to ignore people who use the propaganda from a cult where anything from psychiatry is ignored.


k, agree, I don't want nothing to do with Scientology also, but it's still straw-man to picture everyone who is questioning as a scientologist


> but it's still straw-man to picture everyone who is questioning as a scientologist

But that's not what I did. I responded to someone who posted scientology propaganda.


There is also point, cross-cultural. Most Asian cultures which are build around communities, instead of individualistic competition have orders of magnitude less such "deceases", which means it is learned behavior, reaction to the environment, which means it could be altered by changing the habits. And environment, is, of course, a product of actions of each individual member.


Where are the clinical tests for depression? The diagnosis is solely based on the opinion of the practitioner, there is no brain scan or chemical test that can conclusively prove that someone is suffering from depression. The so called "drugs" used to treat depression are no better, they "are thought to work" (big pharma phrases it this way in their own TV ads) by re-balancing the brain's chemistry, but in actual fact they have never been able to prove this with scientific TESTS.

So yes, people get sad sometimes, it's a fact of life, but maybe if we stopped prescribing them powerful mind altering narcotics that have FDA black warning label that say right on the box that they increase the risk of suicide, maybe they wouldn't take their own lives in such huge numbers.

EDIT: Relevant link, please get ALL the facts before you go see a shrink about your "depression": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHu7Ik36128


Note: The video linked to by parent is by CCHR, a known Scientology front group[1]. Doesn't mean they're necessarily right or wrong, just thought people should know.

1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Citizens_Commission_on_Human_R...


Actually, it's no secret that CCHR is related to the Church of Scientology. It says so on www.scientology.org:

As part of their religious Code, Scientologists pledge “to expose and help abolish any and all physically damaging practices in the field of mental health,” and thereby bring about an atmosphere of safety and security to mental healing. Accordingly, in 1969 Scientologists established the Citizens Commission on Human Rights (CCHR), a watchdog group that investigates and exposes psychiatric violations of human rights.

http://www.scientology.org/activity/citizens-commission-on-h...

What's an example of a physically damaging practice? How about involuntary commitment? How about psychosurgery? Forced electroshock? How about being drugged against your will? How about raped in a psych hospital?

Here is what CCHR does about it:

http://www.cchr.org/about-us/cchr-accomplishments.html

I'd call CCHR a social reform group.


I'd like to see external citations for the list of claimed achievements on that second page.

To balance out your links and snippets, here's the Wikipedia article:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Citizens_Commission_on_Human_Ri...


Here is one for you:

"In 1995 CCHR published the acclaimed book Psychiatrists: The Men Behind Hitler."

http://www.amazon.com/Psychiatrists-Behind-Hitler-Thomas-Rod...

And another one:

"In 1999, members of the Council of Europe issued a resolution that recognized psychiatrists as the architects of the ethnic cleansing and encouraged Council members to 'study the material that has been put together and researched by the French chapter of the Citizens Commission on Human Rights.'"

http://assembly.coe.int/ASP/Doc/XrefViewHTML.asp?FileID=8785...


Actually, the second citation you reference asserts that two psychiatrists participated in and coordinated ethnic cleansing, implying that psychiatry was the root cause. It states that eugenics is particularly stupid and unjust (note that this is not a theory recognized in psychiatry) and it was issued as a resolution made by merely three members. In other words, they lobbied a few European politicians into making a statement about facts not necessarily in evidence, in a very limited form to show tenuous conclusions not backed up by any research whatsoever.

Awesome.

As for the book, you're using the peacock term "acclaimed" and cited an Amazon product page. Not what I'd call a great citation.

This is the problem, of course, with citations. It exposes the hollowness of ridiculous arguments by allowing all to see exactly the underpinning assumptions behind statements and assertions.

This is why I invented [citation needed]. I appreciate you reminding me why I did so.


Thank you. This is quite instructive.

What makes a great citation? The claim was that a book was published, and I showed the book. Another claim was that a resolution was passed and I showed the resolution. I thought I was doing well until I read chris's reply. :)

I will address chris's point that eugenics is not a theory recognized in psychiatry.

1. Forced sterilization of mental patients was done by social psychiatrists, to improve society by removing the genetic material of mentally feeble and insane.

Reference: Keeping America Sane: Psychiatry and Eugenics in the United States and Canada, 1880-1940. Ian Robert Dowbiggin. 245 pp. Cornell University Press, 1997.

http://www.americanscientist.org/bookshelf/pub/how-psychiatr...

http://www.amazon.com/Keeping-America-Sane-Psychiatry-1880-1...

2. The following paper offers historical case studies of "psychiatric genetics" and urges reflection on social psychiatry.

The Eugenic Legacy in Psychology and Psychiatry by David Pilgrim of Mental Health Policy, University of Central Lancashire, UK

http://isp.sagepub.com/content/54/3/272.abstract

3. What about "On human self-domestication, psychiatry, and eugenics" by Martin Brüne in Philos Ethics Humanit Med. 2007; 2: 21. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2082022/

Am I doing better?

I want to thank chris for challenging me to contribute higher quality content.


"I want to thank chris for challenging me to contribute higher quality content."

It would also be helpful for you to research the flaws in what you wish to replace psychology with, if you're going to suggest revolution instead of reform.


I'm not denying awful things were one in the name f psychiatry, but these ate the current state of the field/profession.


The current state of the "mental health" profession/field includes suffocating patients in attachment therapy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candace_Newmaker), fraud (http://www.justice.gov/usao/lae/news/2010/2010_08_19_maria_c...), and rape (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/30/doctor-shock-anti-g...).

Electric shock is still considered a valid form of therapy in the profession (http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/electroconvulsive-therapy/M...).


Extreme cases in a large profession does not mean the entire profession is like the cases you cite. ECT is still considered a valid form of therapy because it is a valid form of therapy.


A social reform group run by a paramilitary organization who operates forced labor camps? No thanks.

It also poses as an "independent" group when its operators are looking not to reform psychology/psychiatry but subvert and replace entirely with Scientology practices. Frontgroups are not a sign of good intent.


Au contraire, if it is related to Scientology, give it a very wide berth.


The clinical tests are easy to find:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK64063/


a numbered list? sad joke...


Otherwise commonly referred to as a "summary". You may have heard of it.


Also, this summary plus the psychian gut feeling acts as the whole criteria AFAIK, so it's not a summary, it's the whole exam.

When, before Christ, people noticed your urine attracted ants and that it probably had something to do with a disease(diabetes), that was a more criterious diagnosis. Just saying.


let me rephrase it then, a numeric list of general stuff that came up from a committee, that changes every 5 years or so, that anyone in whole world could identify in them in some point their lifes for (generally) a lifetime diagnosis that's given with medical authority backing, like the ones where they know cause, effect and solution? sad joke...


Not really much different from the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems.


You are demanding more empiricism while simultaneously abusing existing empiricism.

> narcotics that have FDA black warning label that say right on the box that they increase the risk of suicide

The label says the suicide rate among people who have taken these pills are larger than the population in general. It does in no way mean the pills increase the risk of suicide. Interpret this in the context of these pills being given to people who already have suicidal tendencies, and it's much less scary.

This is empirical knowledge that by law must be on all forms of medication. If you are testing a salt water + lemon juice + cinnamon capsule as treatment for high blood pressure, and one of your test subjects gets hospitalized for severe food poisoning from eating shitty take away during the test, and this causes their liver to give out, the pamphlet describing your lemon cinnamon capsules is going to say "very low risk of acute liver failure".




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