I think it is simpler than that. A person who uses -I- is asking for attention. A person in power feels that they already have the other person's attention or is unconcerned with it.
Interesting to note that you started this reply with "I think." Would it have carried more weight if you started with "perhaps" instead, or stripped it altogether? Maybe. Either way it's fun to think about.
Another thought -- perhaps an "I" form of statement would invite more discussion in a forum than something that appears to be a factual statement and not a opinion.