"The only way forward is REAL tolerance for all kinds of behavior and a good faith attempt to see people in context."
This only applies when a member of the group has been caught doing somethings stupid. If someone "trying to join" the group has complaints, there is no need for tolerance. "Nerd culture", for example, has its own standards of "appropriate".
"The only way forward is REAL tolerance for all kinds of behavior and a good faith attempt to see people in context."
This only applies when a member of the group has been caught doing somethings stupid. If someone "trying to join" the group has complaints, there is no need for tolerance. "Nerd culture", for example, has its own standards of "appropriate".